The school-to-prison pipeline has moved our youth from the American Dream to an American nightmare. Children, who should be given second chances and opportunities to learn are being pushed out of the classroom with high rates of suspensions and expulsions. In Syracuse, NY, 85% of inmates had their start in this school system. An over reliance on police in schools, excuses administrators and teachers from truly dealing with and managing students properly. When a 6-year-old says she was handcuffed under the stairs for stealing candy, you know there’s a problem.
Zero tolerance policies, which are harsh punishments for anything deemed unacceptable in schools, are increasing the chances that youth enter into the criminal justice system. And the students most affected are students of color, LGBT students and students with disabilities. In schools across the country, students of color are three times more likely to be suspended than white students and even pre-schoolers aren’t exempt.
Children are not “born bad,” so why do schools treat them that way?
This treatment, as demonstrated by headline after headline of shocking stories, has created an atmosphere of fear, doubt and hatred in our communities. Many parents are left not trusting schools. Many teachers feel alone and unsupported in their efforts to create discipline. Hope is slipping and it is slipping fast. It’s time for a school discipline revolution.
It starts with speaking out against practices that are punitive in our schools. But it also requires an entirely different way of thinking. We have the power to turn this around and help children move from cradle to career. The school discipline revolution is in restorative justice.
Restorative justice is an approach to discipline that focuses on righting wrongs, repairing harms and building community. This means that instead of just kicking out a student for a mistake, the student is asked to do something for the community to make up for it. They may join a peace circle of peers who hold them accountable for their actions. They may have to apologize face-to-face to a person they insulted or harmed.
Sounds too “soft’ like it won’t work? I led restorative justice initiatives in some of Chicago’s toughest public schools with students people called too “criminal” or gangster to turn things around. I have done trainings with teachers and administrators across the U.S. I’ve seen the change in hearts and minds. At the end of the day our children are children and it’s our job to teach them. We’ve already seen that teaching punishment alone doesn’t work-- so let’s teach them something more.
Restorative Justice will be a part of the new chapter we write in America. Restorative Justice does not mean we forget the past wrongs or gloss over the pain and suffering of the last 400 years. Restorative justice is simply justice that heals. It means we work to repair harm but we do it in order that we all benefit from the process toward community building. There are no winners and losers. We all win when we seek to heal as a community and a nation.
We need to reorganize our priorities when it comes to the well being of all of our children. Seeking to change behavior through fear and intimidation only reaps more fear and intimidation in the communities we live. Hurt people hurt people! The victims of today will become the offenders of tomorrow if their needs are not met.
Restorative justice has the ability to move us from fear to faith and from harm to healing. There is no time to waste. Our communities are in need of healing spaces and connections that celebrate our racial and ethnic heritage. These spaces connect us to the only race that matters--the human race. That’s where the real revolution is.